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You can find the handouts to their 2010 Presentation at the Summit on Blamer Softening, EFT and Blended Families, Rebuilding Broken Bonds – Recovering from Infidelity and many others.

Beginning Each Session – A Checklist

From Becoming an Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist: Workbook

Are Men & Women From Different Planets?

No – your partner is NOT an alien!! by Susan Johnson

Integration of a Cultural Lens with Emotionally Focused Therapy by Gunnur Karakurt and Margaret Keiley

in Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy

“Broken Together”: Sprirituality and Religion as Coping Strategies for Couples Dealing with the Death of a Child: A Literature Review with Clinical Implicationsby Ileana Ungureanu and Jonathan Sandberg

The Efficacy of Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT-C) Training with Regard to Reducing Sexual Dissatisfaction Among Couples

Interview with Susan Johnson Pychotherapy Networker CE Courses May 12, 2010

Interview with Susan Johnson on EFT, Hold Me Tight, Attachment Theory

Sue Johnson’s Psychology Today Blog

Sue Johnson’s Hold Me Tight Blog

Creating Healing Relationships for Couples Dealing with Trauma: The Use of Emotionally Focused Marital Therapy by Susan Johnson and Lyn Williams-Keeler, published in Journal of Marital and Family Therapy, 1998, Vol. 24. No. 1, 25-40.

Here’s an article Becca wrote that was published in the most recent ICEEFT News.

Identifying the connecting moves of reciprocity and healthy relationships

7 minutes & 51 seconds of Sue Johnson giving her Key Note Address at the 2009 Psychotherapy Networker

Save Your Marriage by Sue Johnson published in More Magazine

The San Diego Center for EFT Streaming Seminars:

Inside Blamer Softening: Maps & Missteps by Brent Bradley and James Furrow (from their website)

Attachment Injuries in Couple Relationship by Sue Johnson, Judy Makinen, and John Milikin

Deepening_Engagement_with_Attachment_Affect_Jorgensen.pdf

Deepening Engagement with Attachment Affect by Rebecca Jorgensen

Susan Johnson on the life-and-death urgency of attachment:

Scott Woolley on TV talking about EFT Part II

Scott Woolley on TV taking about EFT Part I

George Faller on TV talking about EFT

Rebecca Jorgensen gives an Introduction to EFT

Sue Johnson’s October 2009 AAMFT Plenary Points

Articles and Videos on Attachment

Attachment to GOD: The Attachment to GOD Inventory, Tests of Working Model Correspondence, and an Exploration of Faith Group Differences

By Richard Beck and Angie McDonald

Journal of Psychology and Theology

The beauty and the power of the healing touch.

Mom’s hug revives baby who was pronounced dead..

Adult Romantic Attachment: Theoretical Developments, Emerging Controversies, and Unanswered Questions

by R. Chris Fraley and Philip Shaver. Review of General Psychology 2000, Vol 4, pp 132-154

Airport Separations: A Naturalistic Study of Adult Attachment Dynamics in Separating Couples

by R. Chris Fraley and Philip R. Shaver Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 1998, Vol 75, No. 5, pp 1198-1212

The Strange Situation – Mary Ainsworth

Circle of Security: Baby Bonding

Mary Ainsworth and the Strange Situation BBC Radio (October 19, 2005)

From Attachment Theory & Research at Stony Brook

Still Face Experiment

Attunement and Why it Matters

The Wholeness of Mind, Brain, Body, and Human-Relatedness by Daniel Siegel

Romantic love conceptualized as an attachment process. By Hazan, Cindy; Shaver, Phillip Journal of Personality

On Line Articles

Stony Brook Attachment Lab

Alan Sroufe on Attachment Theory

Minnesota Longitudianl Study of Attachment

Chris Fraley: Attachment Links & Resources

Phil Shaver: Adult Attachment Lab

A Literature Review of Child-Parent/Caregiver Attachment Theory and Cross Cultural Practices Influencing Attachment

A Brief Overview of Attachment Theory and Research

Allan Schore and Attachment

Louis Cozolino interviewed about his book: The Neuroscience of Human Relationships

Circle of Security: Early Intervention Program for Parents and Children

Mary Ainsworth: Attachment and the Growth of Love

Attachment Parenting International

Louis Cozolini: The Neuroscience of Human Relationships

Interview with Daniel Siegel

Attachment Theory and Research at Stonybrook

John Bowlby and Attachment Theory

Emotions

Shame and Empathy

Dr. Brene Brown

PBS Interview with Brene Brown

Brene Brown

on Shame, Vulnerability, Connection, Worthiness

The Price of Invulnerability

Brene Brown

Jeremy Rifkin on Empathy and Civilization

Emotions Revealed

Paul Ekman

Emotional Processing Inventory

developed by Rory Reid and James Harper

Shame by Robert Karen

The Atlantic Monthly, Feb 1992 v269 n2 p. 40(21)

Emotions Outlast the Memories that Drive Them

story on NPR

This Emotional Life

A Gestalt Therapy Approach to Shame and Self-Righteousness: Theory & Methods by Richard Erskine

Focusing Resources provided by Ann Weiser Cornell

Gendlin Library Online

3 Key Aspects of Focusing by Ann Weiser Cornell

An Interview with Focusing Teacher, Ann Weiser Cornell

Ann Weiser Cornell: Focusing

Seeds of Compassion

Charter for Compassion

Thinking at the Edge with Eugene Gendlin, Part 1

Thinking at the Edge with Eugene Gendlin, Part 2

Thinking at the Edge with Eugene Gendlin, Part 3

Eugene Gendlin Introduces Focusing, Part 1

Eugene Gendlin Introduces Focusing, Part 2

Emotional Focusing

Daniel Goleman on Compassion

Somatic Experiencing

Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy

Gloria: Humanistic Work

Carl Rogers and Gloria, Part 1

Carl Rogers and Gloria, Part 2

Carl Rogers and Gloria, Part 3

Carl Rogers and Gloria, Part 4

Carl Rogers and Gloria, Part 5

Neuroscience

The Future of Brain-Based Psychotherapy

Dan Siegel

Psychotherapy Networker CE Courses

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

The Neurobiology of “We”

Daniel Siegel

From Networker Live

Jim Coan and the Hand Holding Experiment

Social regulation of emotional responses

Louis Cozolino interviewed on his book: The Neuroscience of Human Relationships

Dan Siegel: Mindsight

The Brain from Top to Bottom

Trauma

Compassion with the Trauma Client

John Briere

Trauma, Suffering & Mindfulness

John Briere

Miscellaneous – Fun Stuff and Poems

“Danny and Annie” from StoryCorps

Rescue Hug

Turtle comes to the Rescue

Playing for Change

Stand By Me Video

Van Morrison – Real Real Gone [2007 Re-mastered].mp3

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John Bowlby would be very proud of Van Morrison:

Above is a link to the song, Real Real Gone.

And here are the lyrics:

Real real gone

I got hit by a bow and arrow

Got me down to the very marrow

And I’m real real gone

Real real gone

I can’t stand up by myself

Don’t you know I need your help

And I’m real real gone

Some people say

You can make it on your own

Oh you can make it if you try

I know better now

You can’t stand up alone

Oh baby that is why

I’m real real gone

I can’t stand up by myself

Don’t you know I need your help

You’re a friend of mine

And I’m real real gone

And Sam Cooke is on the radio

And the night is filled with space

And your fingertips touch my face

You’re a friend of mine

And I’m real real gone

I’m real gone

Oh lord I got hit by a bow and arrow

Got me down to the very marrow

You’re a friend of mine

And I’m real real gone

I’m real gone

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Wilson Pickett said:

- “In the midnight hour, that’s

When my love comes tumbling down”

Solomon Burke said:

- “If you need me, why don’t you call me”

James Brown said:

- “When you’re tired of what you got, try me”

Gene Chandler said:

- “There’s a rainbow in my soul”

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A Rabbit Noticed My Condition

I was sad one day and went for a walk;

I sat in a field.

A rabbit noticed my condition and came near.

It often does not take more than that to help at times -

to just be close to creatures who

are so full of knowing,

so full of love

that they don’t–

chat,

they just gaze with

their marvelous understanding.

–St. John of the Cross

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I love you,

Not only for what you are

But for what I am

When I am with you.

I love you,

Not only for what

You have made of yourself

But for what

You are making of me.

I love you,

For the part of me

That you bring out;

I love you,

For putting your hand

Into my heaped-up heart

And passing over

All the foolish, weak things

That you can’t help

Dimly seing there,

And for drawing out

Into the light

All the beautiful belongings

That no one else had looked

Quite far enough to find.

I love you because you

Are helping me to make

Of the lumber of my life

Not a tavern

But a temple;

Out of works

Of my every day

Not a reproach

But a song.

- Roy Croft

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“Oh, the comfort – the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person – having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then with the breath of kindness blow the rest away. ~D. Craik, 1859

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“We are one, after all, you and I, together we suffer, together exist, and forever will recreate each other.” ~ Teilhard de Chardin

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Godfrey turned his head towards her, and their eyes met, dwelling in that meeting without any movement on either side. That quiet mutual gaze of a trusting husband and wife is like the first moment of rest or refuge from a great weariness or a great danger—not to be interfered with by speech or action which would distract the sensations from the fresh enjoyment of repose.

From the classic novel Silas Marner

Other Friends of Emotionally Focused Therapy

Carol Corcoran doing Couple Therapy and EFT

Emotionally Focused Therapy in Australia

with Lyn Thomson

Levi Breuer, Psychologist, Couples Counseling

Couple Therapy with Alan Zwerdling in New Jersey

EFT in Portland, OR with Dr. Sharon Lee

Nataxja Cini – Certified in Emotionally Focused Therapy

at Family-Therapy in Canada

Marriage and Family Therapy at Caring Hope Counselling

Maureen Kaye, MFT: Couples Therapy in Simi Valley, Ca